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Dating Success Strategies: 10 Dating Lessons To
Spice Up Your Social Life
By: April Masini
If you are ready to start winning in the dating
world, follow this simple strategy for success:
Lesson 1: First Impressions
They are immediate, long lasting, and usually permanent. Regardless of
how great you are, and no matter how sweet you can be once someone gets
to know you, the reality is, your dating success will be based almost
entirely upon the other person's initial sense of who and what you are.
Lesson 2: If you want the part, look the part
Statistics show that how we appear speaks more about us, and is more
important, than what we say
verbally.
Lesson 3: Act the part
It is a fact that in our personal affairs, as in all our business
dealings, we sell ourselves first. Poor attitude, image, and behavior
will adversely affect your dating success, just as it will negatively
affect your success in business.
Lesson 4: Be the part.
The initial impression you make on a prospective date predicts whether
she (or he) will take the time to get to know you. Dating, as well as
business, is all about sales. You must think of yourself as a product
and the person you want to date as the buyer.
Lesson 5: Dating is about sales and sales is a numbers game
If you want to multiply your success immediately in dating (or just
about anything else), learn, understand, and embrace the concept behind
"the numbers game." Accept and follow these tenets:
1. You are a product
2. You are the product's salesperson, its packager, and its
advertiser.
3. The person you're trying to attract is your customer. They
make their buying decisions based upon presentation, packaging, and
advertising.
4. The world's best salespeople don't have a 100 percent sales
rate, a 75 percent rate, a 50 percent or even a 25 percent rate. The
world's best salespeople are lucky to maintain a 10 percent sales rate
and count themselves lucky if one out of every ten "pitches" results in
a sale.
Lesson 6: Confidence = success
The number one quality both men and women seek in a date or a mate is
confidence. Confidence is also the key attribute that all professional
salesmen must possess in order to be successful. People do not buy
products or services from someone who has no confidence in themselves or
the products they represent.
Lesson 7: Establish a goal
A confident person is one with a plan and a goal. What's yours?
Lesson 8: Know your target market and give them what they want
Understand to whom you are trying to sell yourself and what they are
interested in buying.
Lesson 9: Analyze the competition and do things better than they do
Just as you would study a competitor in business or a rival sports team,
study your dating competition if you want to win!
Lesson 10: Take action and follow through
Deal with your fear of rejection. Stop investing your energy and
self-worth in outcomes. Instead of
thinking of 'misses' as 'failures,' think of them as 'practice shots'.
Dating is a process. Stop placing so much importance on what the person
you are interested in thinks of you. After all, you don't know if you
would even like them once you get to know them, do you?
Set small goals and accomplish them, one by one. Get passionate about
your goals and your life. Enthusiasm is contagious, if you are excited
about your life, people will be excited about being with you.
Dress for success. Always put your best foot forward And don't forget to
perfect your sales pitch. If you keep doing the same thing, you will
keep getting the same result.
Lesson 10: Live as if there may be no tomorrow
Realize there are no guarantees, no dress rehearsals, and (usually) no
second chances. Make each day "your day," one in which you did all that
you could do.
About the author: Nicknamed "the new millenium's Dear
Abby" by the media, April Masini is author of the best-selling book
"Date Out of Your League", and is the publisher of the provocative
dating and relationship online magazine,
http://AskApril.com April writes what Dear Abby will never print and
what your shrink doesn't have the guts to tell you!
Article Source:
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