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Marriage Tips Article:
Five Bad Habits to Avoid in Your
Marriage
There is no misconception that marriage is easy. Most people know
that marriage takes a lot of work, and like any relationship, it
evolves – developing a deeper understanding of one another. This
evolution of your relationship also creates new challenges - including
many bad habits which, if you can identify and avoid, can be easily
overcome. Read below for some common bad habits people develop in
their marriage, and what potential they can have to ruin your
relationship.
#1 Falling into a Routine
Just because you are married doesn’t mean you don’t have to try to
impress each other anymore. Getting into a routine sometimes means
only doing nice things for each other on special occasions like
birthdays and Valentine’s Day. Get out of that routine – you should be
reminding your spouse of why they fell in love with you, not making
them wish you acted more like you did when you were dating.
#2 Avoiding Conflicts
Every marriage will have its conflicts and disagreements. But trying
to avoid a fight doesn’t make the problem go away, and in fact, it
makes it worse by leaving it unresolved. Learn to discuss problems
constructively and deal with them in a productive way. Nagging,
yelling, and ignoring are not solutions and will only make matters
worse. Bring up issues before they get to be serious problems and you
may be able to resolve them sooner and with less conflict.
#3 Getting too Comfortable
One of the great things about marriage is that you can be yourself and
know that your spouse loves you for it. Your days of nervous dating
and “do they like me?” are over and aren’t you relieved! However,
there is such a thing as being too comfortable. Burping at dinner,
leaving dirty laundry around and basically acting like you live with a
college roommate instead of your spouse can lead to a serious decline
in romance. Be comfortable with your spouse, but also be courteous,
considerate and clean.
#4 No Sex
One of the main bad habits people fall into in marriage is the lack of
a healthy, active sex life. Time consuming work, children, and a
boring routine can kill a libido – and have a devastating effect on
your relationship. Keep it exciting, even if it means scheduling
romantic time together. You’ll both be glad you did.
#5 No Fun
Marriage should be fun, not boring or stressful. Be spontaneous!
Surprise your spouse after work with tickets to a movie and a nice
dinner. Take a weekend trip even if it is just a bed and breakfast an
hour away. Having fun doesn’t mean spending lots of time or money.
There is no reason that you can’t manage a few hours a week for
recreation together. Making time to have fun and relax makes a huge
difference in easing a potentially stressful and unromantic marriage.
Like all habits, some are hard to break. If you have found that your
marriage has developed these habits, it’s best to talk to your spouse
about them and discuss ways that you can both work to revive your
marriage and break them together. Maybe you can even start to develop
exciting and new healthy habits in your relationship.
Source:
http://www.articlecircle.com/
About the Author
K.S. Louman writes relationship advice for www.marriagemax.com. For
more information on how to keep your marriage in good shape and
overcome bad habits that you may have developed, please visit
www.marriagemax.com.
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