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5 Ways To Having Your Best Internet
Profile Possible
by: Amy Schoen
You are finally biting the bullet and decide to try online dating. You
have narrowed down one or two sites that your friends have recommended
you try where they are having success meeting people. Now you have to
write your internet profile. That's the hard part!
Or you have had your internet dating profile up for a while and have not
seen much action lately. Perhaps it is time for you to reevaluate your
profile and see if you can make improvements to attract more quality
candidates to your internet profile. What if writing is not your forte?
If you follow the five ideas outlined below, you will be putting your
best foot forward and on your way to experiencing the excitement of
internet dating or revitalizing your internet potential.
Today's dating tips for men and women are for those who want to have
better success with internet dating. After checking out the format of
the profile and how others are presenting themselves on that site, I
encourage you to:
1. Present the most authentic you!
Show your potential dates the real you. If you put down stuff that you
are not, you will attract the wrong people and eventually it will come
out, causing big relationship issues down the line. For example, if you
can't stand cats and say you like animals, then what will you do if your
date has a cat? My philosophy is what you put out there is what you will
attract. Just like an ad in a magazine - if a company advertises a car
with a powerful engine, it will attract people who want that in a car.
So it is best to be honest and upfront with your profile. Describe what
you need and want in a relationship. Don't be afraid to ask for what you
want (as long as it is socially appropriate!). If you want marriage and
a family – then put that down in your profile. You will attract those
who want the same things as you, and turn away those who would be scared
by that comment-that's a good thing!
2. Tell your audience what's unique about you!
A key relationship question is wWhat sets you apart from the next guy or
gal? What is special about you? Do you have any special talents? You
want someone who appreciates that about you. If you have an artistic
bent, or you sing in a chorus, describe that! If you run marathons or
help out with volunteer activities, put that down. This will set you
apart from all the other internet profiles out there and can help you in
finding your Get It Right This Time™ partner.
3. Take your reader into your experiences with you!
I believe in bringing the reader into the experiences that you truly
value. Not just superficially mention you like running through the park,
but send out an invitation for them to join you. For instance, one of my
clients described how he loves to jog in a city park in the fall when
the air is crisp and the leaves are multi-tonal. Doesn't this
description have a "come join me" feeling?
Don't just mention that you like concerts and movies. Describe what kind
of concerts you prefer and types of movies you love. Including this type
of detail will help answer relationship questions for those looking at
your profile.
4. Describe what's truly important to you!
What gets you up in the morning? What truly motivates you in life? One
of my clients truly values giving of herself to the community. She is an
avid volunteer. I'm sure she wants to attract someone who also values
giving to the community as well. When you get beyond the superficial,
you will attract those who say, "This person seems to be the kind of
person I want to meet!"
5. Invest in hiring a professional for the all important photo!
We do live in a visual society and we do judge a book by a cover!
Studies have shown that the photo is the key to whether a person decides
to check out your profile or not. If you are not sure how you come
across in the photo, then ask a friend or co-worker for their opinion. I
request my clients to get a professional photo 95% of the time. Make
sure the photo is a current one of you, within a year or two!
Some internet dating sites do provide you with a list of photographers
in your area who specialize in internet dating photos. As an added
bonus, you will have a photo of yourself to give to your family members
come December as a holiday gift!
By following the ideas presented above by your relationship coach, I
guarantee that you will see an improvement in the type of people who are
contacting you, as well as the responses you are getting from those you
are contacting.
Copyright (c) 2007 Heartmind Connection, LLC
About The Author
Amy Schoen, MBA, CPCC, certified professional life coach and
dating-relationship expert, helps singles to attract the right romantic
relationship into their lives, is the author of “Motivated to Marry™-Now
There is a Better Method for Dating and Relationships!” and speaks
nationally to groups on dating and relationships. For dating tips for
men and women, subscribe to her monthly ezine and teleclasses at:
http://www.heartmindconnection.com/
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